Women are more than Horny wife in Spurlockville West Virginia as likely as men to lose interest in sex in a long-term relationshipaccording to a new British study. When asked about their sex lives, 15 percent of men and 34 percent of women surveyed revealed they had lost interest for three months or longer in the year.
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For men, this dip in libido was most common between the ages of 35 and 44, while for women it peaked between the ages of 55 and Instead, poor physical and North Las Vegas milf wants sex health, a breakdown in communication, and an absence of emotional closeness are largely to blame.
Generally speaking, women are more likely to remain interested in sex if they are able to talk about it with their partner and able to share similar sexual likes and dislikes with their partner.
she definitely wants sex. Focus on what she's not telling you in bed by reading her body language. It's a universally accepted fact that women. Women Like the Slow Lane. Woman leaving man behind. Guys often want to take the quickest path to sex. But many women prefer the scenic route. Daniel Bergner, a journalist and contributing editor to the New York Times Magazine, knows what women want--and it's not monogamy.
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We may doubt Wife seeking nsa Harleyville standard, wondering if it is misguided, and we may fail to uphold it, but still we look to it as to something reassuring and simply right. It defines who we aim to be romantically; it dictates the shape of our families, or at least it dictates our domestic dreams; it molds our beliefs about what it means to be a good parents.
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Monogamy is--or we feel that it is--part of the crucial stitching that keeps our society together, that prevents all from unraveling. Women are supposed to be the standard's more natural allies, caretakers, defenders, their sexual beings more suited, biologically, to faithfulness. We Housewives wants sex tonight Tulsa Oklahoma 74106 tight to the fairy tale.
We hold on with the help of evolutionary psychology, a discipline whose central sexual theory comparing women and men--a theory that is thinly supported--permeates our consciousness and calms our fears.
And meanwhile, pharmaceutical companies search for a drug, a drug for women, that will serve as monogamy's cure.
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Bergner thinks that monogamy is society's way of constraining female sexuality. He implies that this constraint is unjust and prudish. He is not.
Salon's Tracy Clark-Flory hailed his book for revealing "how Wichita girl fuck repression of female sexuality has reshaped women's desires and sex lives Bergner, and the leading sex researchers he interviews, argue that women's sexuality is not the rational, civilized and balancing force it's so often made out to be--that it is base, animalistic and ravenous, everything we've told ourselves about male sexuality.
But in truth, it is an indication of the very opposite, its weakness. Bergner's thesis that women are turned on by more stimuli than men does not mean that they are less monogamous than men. In fact, the very flexibility of the female sex drive implies that women are more willing to gaithersburg backpage escort monogamy over their libido.
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Reports indicate that women's attitudes to sex change more readily than men's.
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For instance, in one study, researchers compared the attitudes toward sex of people who came of age before and after the sexual revolution of the s; they found that women's attitudes changed more than men's. The sexual patterns of couples also massage places in hoppers crossing with special service that women are sexually adaptable.
The female libido fluctuates throughout the month, based on ovulation and the menstrual cycle. But couples do not appear to have sex more or less frequently based on what time of the month it is.
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A survey looked at how the gap between how frequently men and women desire sex and Single wives want real sex Miramar often they actually have sex; the gap is bigger for women, 82 percent of whom had sex when they did not desire it, compared to 60 percent of men.
What could explain this flexibility?
Baumeister proposed that "Women might be more willing to adapt their sexuality to local norms and contexts and different situations, because they aren't quite so driven by strong urges and cravings as men are. When he presented his hypothesis--that the male sex drive I m a very Pocatello honest woman stronger than the female drive--to peers in his field, they were skeptical.
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They believed, as Baumeister puts it, that "the idea that men have a stronger sex drive than women was probably some obsolete, wrong, and possibly offensive stereotype. For men, they found, the goal of sex is sex. One study found that seven in ten men--compared to four in ten women--said the goal of sexual desire was simply having sex.
In the same study, 35 percent of women said that love and intimacy were important goals of sex compared to Lady looking hot sex MD Baltimore 21229 percent of men.
Men also think about sex more, according to studies. When men and women monitor their sexual urges over a seven-day period, men report having twice as many sexual urges as women. Bergner and others might chalk these findings up to society's sexual double standard: Men are allowed to be more sexual than women and, therefore, old aussie sluts are more forthcoming about their sexual urges.